Love them- Love them some more
Many years ago when I worked in retail (blech) I enjoyed asking elderly couples what the secret of their long marriage was. My favorite answer from one wife was "Just love him. At the end of the day, no matter what he's said or done, just love him".
Wow, such wisdom in those words.
So, I will keep this short and sweet.
Just love them.
No matter what your children do or say
just love them.
1 John 4:16
And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them.